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| Mayor Chris Montgomery |
Chris Montgomery is the Mayor of Mooresville, North
Carolina (he also happens to be a Christ follower). The news broke a few weeks
ago about intimate emails that he sent from a town email address to a woman who
was not his wife. He has said he will continue to serve until his term ends,
but not seek re-election. He wants to work on his faith and family.
Jesus was not the stone throwing type and neither should
the church be. Chris agreed to do an interview for Randumblog that I pray will
be an eye opener for us to see that this could happen to anyone. My hope is
that anyone dealing with secret sin will be able to hear Chris’ heart and flee
one of the many self-destructive paths our enemy places before us.
Nate: I appreciate your willingness to
do this interview for Randumblog. My hope is that my readers gain a clearer
understanding of how truly challenging political life can be.
Chris: Thank you for asking me to participate, Nate.
It was kind of touch and go there for a while. But I have been blessed with
good friends and family who have supported me unconditionally. I have been very
overwhelmed. I have been even more thankful.
I would contend that
LIFE is challenging. The politics just added to it in my case. But everyone has
their demons. That statement is not designed to be a cop-out, just fact. Quite
literally, my saving grace was realizing I had Jesus Christ. He was always
there. I just ignored the Bible or pretended not to need him. That is a recipe
for disaster, particularly when you have been chosen to lead. It has been a
tough road. But the weight was lifted once I realized how much God loves his
children.
Nate: First, I would like to apologize
for myself and other Christians in Mooresville who have neglected to lift you
up in prayer. I believe God has called us to this and I for one have failed you
as a leader in this way.
Chris: No one has failed me. It was quite the
opposite. But it's not about deserving each other. We have already been
accepted. Who else do you know that would give his only son's life for a bunch
of sinners? It's overwhelming when you think about it.
Nate: People in positions of leadership
(especially believers) tend to be targets of the enemy’s attacks. What advice
would you give to others in leadership positions in the area of fidelity?
Chris: Well first let me make it perfectly clear
that my wife and I love each other. We have volumes of stories and experiences,
not to mention three beautiful children. But I, like most men, thrive on
attention. Of course some of that is human nature. However, the thought process
should go further than that. I for one am very narcissistic and am learning to
deal with changing that behavior. I believe putting God as your number one
priority is the first step. Then back it up with daily devotions and scripture.
My wife has helped me build such faith. She is my rock.
Nate: It seems that many Christians tend
to shoot their own wounded or distance themselves from those who have fallen.
It is easy to swell with pride and think that it could not happen to us. If you
could go back five years and give a much younger Chris Montgomery some
advice—what would you say?
Chris: "Pride comes before the fall.";
"Check yourself before you wreck yourself." Leave your ego at the
door." "There is no I in team." -- We were all taught these
proverbs and lessons as kids, but some people get so wrapped up in themselves
and agendas that the message gets lost in the shuffle.
I have been in
advertising sales for the last twenty years. Salespeople are trained from the
get-go to appear confident, wear a smile, and provide solutions better than the
competition. I fell prey to my own pitch. In a nutshell, I would tell the
younger Chris Montgomery to be more humble and less assertive in most
situations.
Nate: I know that you have asked for forgiveness in this situation. You said in a letter to the town commissioners
that you are going to, “…focus on my faith and family.” How can my readers pray
for you specifically as you do this?
Chris: Don't pray for me, pray for everyone. Ask God
to show ways to help others. Pray that leaders everywhere make sound decisions,
personally and professionally. Or as my wife says, "Let go, let God.”
Nate:
Thank you for your time and straightforward answers. You have given us a lot to
think about as we take stock of our own lives.
Chris: It has been my pleasure. If this virtual
Interview can influence one reader, you and I have made a difference.
Another Interview from Randumblog:
Jerry Jenkins on The Brotherhood
Another Interview from Randumblog:
Jerry Jenkins on The Brotherhood
